Tuesday, January 29, 2013

Do Men Want Their Women To Be One Of The Guys?

Is Being One of the Guys Hot or Not?



Being considered "one of the guys" could be one of the best things that could happen to a man besides sex while in a relationship!

Men are more attracted to women who are down to earth. Regular women just don't cut it anymore with men and as a matter of fact, they can find regular women boring and simple minded.

Men find it sexy when a woman can get down and dirty regardless to whether it's playing flag football with his friends or helping out in the yard. This is not only impressive to his buddies, but it makes him proud when friends envy the fact that he has a woman who's like one of the boys.

Surely as a woman you will still keep your sexiness by being a womanly, but when you share in doing "guy things" it benefits the relationship between you and your guy.

How? Guys are known to dislike doing things with women because; it is not always considered manly to do them. What the hell would his boys think if they found out he was doing girly things?

But, if a woman does guy things with her man the chances are great for a man to reciprocate; even going shopping! He might even hold your purse while he's at it!

Don't believe it? You should try it! A man will invite an outgoing woman to share in his interests and even spend time around his friends. On the other hand, if you're just too feminine to roll up your sleeves or break a nail and would rather sit around looking bored to death, chances are you will not get many invites.

Get Involved For More Quality Time

If you want quality time with your guy, get involved in what he likes. But don't push yourself on him. He may see this as trying to invade his space. Approach it with caution and good intentions and he'll be cool with it. You'd be surprised as to how much a man will invite you to do, if you show that you can hang.

When he asks just try to show genuine interest. Think of it as an experiment with his world being your own private laboratory. Trust me, there is nothing like learning about a guy in his natural environment.

Have you ever seen that one couple that goes out bowling together?

Of course bowling is not just a man's sport, but men enjoy when their women are competitive with them in any sport. They find it very sexy and attractive.

Being one of the guys seems to come to some women naturally. Simply put, a lot of the time it is because they love doing things other than what women do and enjoy exploring new horizons.

You genuinely and honestly enjoy what you do with your man, otherwise it wouldn't work. You have to be just that, "one of the guys" to make things work for you both.

Forget about your manicure or pedicure being damaged by going out on a river raft kayaking or playing a simple one on one basketball game to stay active with your man; just do it.

Men love a woman who is just like one of the guys, it's a major plus! You have a girlfriend, wife, and best friend all wrapped up into one.

You cannot beat that at all and the benefits of him spending time with you are endless. What do you have to loose? Absolutely nothing! If anything you have a lot to gain from being one of the guys.

So the next time you see him alone in the garage working under his car throw on some old fitted jeans and an old t-shirt and slide under the car with him... watch the magic work!

Don't get me wrong, being one of the guys is cool, but he will still want you as the woman you are. Having and enjoying the same interests are exciting to any man.

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